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Oksana Lang

Gestalt Psychotherapist

Member of Estonian Gestalt Psychotherapists Association

I am offering psychotherapy and counselling:

  • Onsite in Tallinn, Estonia
  • Online via video-call apps
  • Languages: English, Estonian, Ukrainian

I am happy to help with depression, burnout, life changes adaptation, work and personal relationships, and general life satisfaction.

Appointment booking is available through email at oksana@feelit.ee, or via social media messaging.

About me

My journey with mental health topics started in 2018 when I was diagnosed with clinical depression. The main trigger was becoming a mother of two and the challenges of the postpartum period when the feeling of control over my life was lost. Gestalt psychotherapy, along with medical treatment, helped me to fully recover from depression and find the light in my life again.

I am Ukrainian, and I relocated to Estonia in 2011. I have a B2 language proficiency in the Estonian language. I have been married for over 10 years now, and am a mother to an 10-years-old daughter and a 7-years-old son.

My first professional qualification is Software Engineering, and I have built a successful 18 years career in IT.

In my free time, I visit the gym, play ukulele in an orchestra, enjoy reading fiction books, and grow flowers in my garden in Tallinn suburbs.

Education in the psychological field:

  • 2021 – 2025 Gestalt Institute of Scandinavia, Denmark
  • 2024 – Grief counseling and techniques (4 EAP), University of Tartu
  • 2024 – Basic victim assistance training (Ohvriabi, Digiriigi Akadeemia)
  • 2023 – Mental Health First Aid course (by peaasi.ee, Estonia)
  • 2022 – Developmental psychology (3 EAP), Clinical psychology (6 EAP), University of Tartu
  • 2021 – General and Social Psychology (3 EAP), Tallinn University

The first step towards recovering is allowing yourself to Feel It

What is Gestalt?

“Gestalt therapists believe that people potentially have all the necessary abilities to solve their problems or face their difficulties.”

Phil Jouce and Charlotte Sills

Sometimes, life circumstances and personal history cause us to choose behaviors that feel safe for the moment but far from happiness. Gestalt techniques help to uncover the true needs of the human being and help build fulfilling relationships.

Clients feedback

Oksana ja Reelika tõid mu ellu kõige raskemal ajal nii palju uut hingamist. Ma sain neilt ja tugigrupilt uued oskused, mida rakendan oma igapäevaelus. Mu suhtlus sõprade ja perega ning eelkõige iseendaga on olulisel määral paranenud. Tänasel päevalgi suudan mingeid emotsioone palju paremini mõtestada ja lasta neil olla, nagu nad on. Eks veel ole palju tööd ja iseenda tundma õppimist aga tunnen, et tänu teile poleks seda kunagi nii kiirelt ja edukalt juhtunud. Siiralt ja südamest aitäh, te muutsite mu elu.

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K.

Ärevuse tugigrupi osaleja

I’m immensely grateful for Oksana for creating this group, inspiring openness and thereby encouraging everybody to have a very comfortable and trusting environment.

On the other hand, Oksana, your personal approach to each group member was just fantastic. I felt supported and understood every time, all the time. All the exercises were applicable, practical and useful. 

Group members were very supportive and understanding, often could relate to each others’ experiences and thoughts – thus having some validation that I’m not alone in this.

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M.

Burnout in IT group participant

Grupikogemus oli minu jaoks sügavalt rikastav ja avardav. See õpetas mulle, kui oluline on jagamine ja teiste toetuse vastuvõtmine. Samuti mõistsin, kui palju peegeldust saame teistelt inimestelt, kui oleme valmis oma kogemusi avama. See teekond on andnud mulle enesekindlust, rahu ja teadlikkust iseendast ning kinnitanud, et hoolimata keerulistest hetkedest, on alati olemas võimalus leida tasakaalu ja tuge.

Südamest aitäh terapeudile ja kõigile, kes on pühendanud oma aja ja teadmised, et meile selline võimalus luua. Tänu nende õppimisele, kirele ja toetusele saime kogeda turvalist ja toetavat keskkonda, kus avastada ennast ja õppida uusi viise oma ärevusega toimetulekuks. See kogemus on olnud hindamatu ning tunnen sügavat tänulikkust.

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P.

Ärevuse tugigrupi osaleja

Therapy groups in Estonia

In Ukrainian:

  • Психологічні вечори українською в Таллінні. Новий сезон восени 2025го. Зареєструватися

In English:

  • Burnout in IT. New groups planned for autumn 2025 here

In Estonian:

  • Anxiety support groups co-lead with Reelika Jakubovski. Please email me for more details oksana@feelit.ee